Anal is one of the hottest sex positions for people in the bedroom and in porno movies.
But why are there still a lot people afraid to try it or those who want to try it and don't know how to go about it?
 
There must still be a stigma with anal. I just think people are not educated in the subject. Educating people is the key to opening up people's minds and teaching them how to do things right in a fun and healthy way.

 
What are some of the Stigmas?
 

Straight guys think that if you like anal sex, that you must be gay. 
Girls can think that it's too dirty for them or that it's unhygienic.
They may also not know how to do anal, so that it doesn't hurt or feel uncomfortable.
Some girls say it feels like poohing during sex.
Poohing during sex? That's not sexy!
 

The Porn Movies:

How do the Porn Stars do it?
How do Straight men get a strap on from a hot Dominatrix in fetish porn?
 

What I found:

Although I have talked to lots of models in the adult industry, fans (female and male), I've found that people in a whole are still not as educated in the bedroom as we thought they would be. I get a lot of questions about the "How to's" in Sex.  Anal is #2 on the list of all the questions.
 
People can be embarrassed to even ask questions. They can even be embarrassed to ask their partner to try it in the bedroom with them.

A lot of people are still afraid to be judged by liking Anal.
 
What if someone has tried Anal Sex and had a bad experience?
How can you or your partner get over that?
 
 
My Personal Ass Story:
 
When I was 16 I was having sex with a guy from behind and he had accidentally thrusted his penis into my ass missing my pussy. My tiny tight virgin ass hole was in so much pain I felt all the blood rush to my head and I had to stop and try to breathe my way through it.
 
My guy felt so bad and apologized profusely to me. I wasn't mad and I told him, "It's OK, I'll be OK."
 
Just like other girls I know that had an uncomfortable anal sex experience tend to be scared to try it again or never.
 

Bad Anal Experiences:

I have actually heard worse stories where a girl trying to get into the adult industry trying anal for the first time had her ass ripped so bad that it bled and she had to go the hospital after.
 
And other girls in L.A. having to do anal for the first time on a shoot without anyone teaching them how to prepare for it and how to do it so it's enjoyable, usually leave with a bad experience with Anal Sex.
 
Directors have to shoot, male talent has to work, other models are getting themselves ready and no one will have the time to teach a new model anal.  So how will they learn? They will probably have to find out the hard way from an experienced girlfriend or a co-worker porn star that aren’t so catty and who will give her the free advice.
 

So why do Anal?

How do other people have anal sex and say they love it?

Anal sex is very enjoyable for men and woman done the right way.
There are a lot of nerve endings in that area and for men it is right close to the prostate.
 

Do Straight Men have anal sex?

 
Are they gay? Not necessarily.
Straight men have plenty of reasons why they should like anal as well!

A lot of Straight Men fantasize having a hot girl use a strap-on, on them.
And Porn Stars and Dominatrix are the first people they always tell.

Men also like their partner to finger their ass.  Any kind of Anal is very enjoyable.
I personally have the best orgasms with Anal Sex and I’m not the only one!
 

How I Started doing Anal:

What I first learned about anal was from my husband. Because he is 13 years older then I am, he has a University degree in Psychology and Human Sexuality and because he loves me more then any man has ever loved me, I trust him with all my new experiences.
 
I told him what happened when I first had anal sex and he was very sensitive in guiding me slowly through it. He just wanted to know we'd do it one day.
 
He first introduced me to anal using his finger in my bum, every once in a while during sex. At first I got all tense and my brain had hang ups trying to reject it. We had talks about me having hang ups and why I was scared to do anal. After the talk became constructive he said he would do things slowly in my own time.
 
I loved that. That had made me feel so comfortable that he would let me lead the way and be patient for when I would come around. For me to come around took years now that I think about it, but he still slowly tried anal on me without pushing and I tried to keep my mind open to it.
 
We started doing anal sex using his fingers and continued using small anal toys, even doing anal enemas in the tub, then butt plugs, larger anal toys and of course graduated to real anal sex with a cock in my ass.

When I was in L.A. meeting Seymore Butt’s during the shooting of “Webdreams – Season III”, I told him, "I Love Anal Sex! I have the best orgasms with anal sex"
 
Now I am not saying everyone has to wait years to go by to have the best anal sex with their partner, but if I have known fully what I learned from one of the most famous Fetish Porn stars, Dominatrix and director in the Fetish Porn business for 10 years, I would have moved into it way quicker then I did.
 
One day my husband and I were having anal sex when we were drunk we did something new. Switching holes. We decided to do what the Porn Stars do.  We went from the vagina to the ass and back. It looks so hot in porn movies. They even go from the "Ass to Mouth" (ATM) so why can't we?
 
Well something happened I didn't know could happen until I had to go to the Dr. with a vaginal infection.
 
She told me there is bacteria in the ass that dose not belong in the pussy. And because we did that without cleaning off the penis first I got a vaginal infection and it wasn't fun. It was uncomfortable, I had to use medicine and insert weird medicine things in my vagina and I had odour down there I had never had before and I thought I would never smell good down there again! And I had prided my self from having no odour down there!  I did get rid of the ordour after doing what the Dr. told me to do… Douche, medicine, douche…
 
So it left me scared to do anal again, and took me a long time to feel confident that the smell was gone. I made sure he was only having sex with one hole or the other hole. I was like, “Pick Anal Sex or Vaginal Sex.” 

But what about the porn movies? They go back and forth all the time! What do they do that's different?

What the Porn Stars Do:
 
Well after talking to other adult performers, I found out that a lot of models clean their ass before a shoot with an "Anal Douche"
 
A famous Porn Star in LA named Jada Fire, who is widely known for her Anal Movies, working for Seymore Butts and performed in hundreds of Anal and Squirting movies all over the Industry, told me that she goes as far as watching what she eats the day before an anal shoot and drinks a lot of water and spends hours on the toilet to flush and clean herself out.
 
 
What's an Anal Douche?
 
An "Anal Douche" is a small plastic, reusable and disposable container with a detachable nosel that gets filled with warm water.  Its nosel is inserted into the ass to push water up into the ass, in order to flush the inside of the anal area. It helps clean your ass from any pooh and bad bacteria.  You'll be left with a hygienic ass, clean enough to go from the ass to the pussy and perform ATM (Ass To Mouth).
 
* Remember, you can't do ATMs or Switch holes without douching because the bacteria in the ass can cause infections in the vagina if you don't douche.
 
* I like dirty sex, not unhygienic sex.
 
* Anal Douching is also a method that can help relax the anal muscles in the area which prepares you for anal sex without discomfort or tearing.
 
* What I use is the "Ultimate Douche" by California Exotic Novelties. It's reusable, easy to use & clean.
 
* But you can purchase it online or at an adult toy store in a variety of different brands.
 
 * How to use it:
 
1. Disinfect the Anal Douche and it's nosel in really hot water or boiling water with a little antibacterial soap.
A good Antibacterial soap to use for your Anal Douche and your Adult Toys is called "Teraseptic").

2. After you have disinfected your douche, fill the container with luke warm water.
(You can test it on your wrist first. If it's too hot it will burn you inside and if it's too cold it will not relax your muscles and it will not be comfortable)
Sit on the toilet and insert the nosel up into your ass deep enough so that the water doesn’t automatically come out on its own.
(You can choose to use a little lube on the end of the nosel or not for easy insertion.)
 
3. After you have inserted the nosel up into your ass, squeeze the container so that you are pumping water into your ass.
(Don't worry that the dirty water is going into your container, it's normal.  You will wash it out after)
Pump the water several times into your ass.
 
4. Remove the nosel and squeeze the access water out into the toilet.
You will most likely need to pooh the first time... So pooh and push all the access water out from your ass into the toilet.   Empty the rest of the contents of the douche into the toilet and flush that as well.
 
5. Take the container and rinse it out in the sink with hot water and then fill it back up with warm water and repeat the process of squeezing the water into your ass several times.
 (Each time you push the water out into the toilet, you are cleaning your ass.)

6. Repeat until the water pushed out of your ass runs clean. (This can take at least 3 x depending on your ass)
 
7. Clean and disinfect your anal douche in really hot or boiling water with your antibacterial soap. Put your Anal Douche away in a plastic bag and use again and again.
(You will need to throw out and replace your Anal Douche after so many uses)
 
 
How to do Anal on a Beginners:
 
What I learned from Chanta Rose
www.chantasbitches.com

Chanta Rose is one of the most famous Fetish Porn People in the business with over 10 years experience.
She has worked as a bondage model, top rigger (rope), dominatrix, producer, author for the book "Bondage for Sex" and the one who helped start the famous Fetish Porn Sites called, www.Kink.com

She helped create; www.MeninPain.com, www.Waterbondage.com, and worked on much more on that site.
She taught me that when you're performing anal using a toy either on a model or on yourself, you can try the following;

 
Anal for Beginners:
 
1. Take your finger, either with or without wearing surgical gloves and put a little lube on the finger and massage the anal area, inserting a small finger.
Slide the lubed finger in and out and the anal muscles will start to relax a bit and feel enjoyable.
 
2. Take the anal toy, preferable a small toy or a small butt plug and put lube on it and massage the anal area with it sticking  just slightly in the ass hole.
 
3. Have the model breath all their breath out and when you slide the toy in the ass a little have the model breath in. (It's like a sucking motion)
 
4. To work it in more, repeat step #3 until the toy is all the way in. If you have time, do this before the shoot with an anal butt plug and have the model have it in their ass while they wait for the turn to get on set. Their ass will be good and ready for the entire shoot.

 
Just Remember:

Remember that if your partner is not into Anal now, that dose not means he / she won’t be into it later.
Be patient, be understanding, and open minded.
Talk about it.  Communication, Education and Understanding is very important in the bedroom and Anal done right is extremely enjoyable.
Don’t be judgmental
 

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